March of 2011 I took a trip of a lifetime to visit a friend, Trish, in New Zealand. She took me all over the North Island. One thing we did was take a bus tour up to Cape Reinga, the very top of the North Island where the Pacific Ocean and the Tasman Sea butt chests.
Along the way we . . .
- Attended a haka, Maori dance. Our busload of tourists was treated to this small group of people doing a haka. At the end we all were invited to make faces. We were either welcoming the dignitaries in our group or scaring away our enemies. Who knew that bulging your eyes and sticking out your tongue had that kind of power?
- Saw ancient Kauri wood carvings at Ancient Kauri Kingdom. This shop had plenty of food and gift offerings. We even walked up and down a gigantic Kauri tree stump that was carved into stairs connecting the 1st and 2nd floors. The photos at this post are some of the wood carvings
- Drove on the beach highway known as the 90-Mile Beach. Just as the Bus driver/Tour guide was telling us this was a fairly safe drive unless it is raining, the rain started coming down.
- Sampled food. We ate a packed lunch on one of the countless gorgeous beaches that New Zealand possesses. Of course cups of tea from Thermoses were passed around. A stop at a small shop for an ice cream cone was mandatory and appreciated.
- Sand Duned DOWN huge dunes which was a first time event for me. One of the highlight events was sand boarding down the dunes at the Te Paki quicksand stream. I am not keen on heights, fast speed, or difficult hiking that involves three steps up and one step back.
But I did it and I learned 4 things about going DOWN the dunes.
ONE. You control the speed. You want to go fast? Keep your legs and feet up. You will z-i-p down those dunes fast! Are you a scaredy-cat like me? Then you keep your feet down and watch OUT for that spray of sand that is sure to spurt right into your open, screaming mouth (all the way down)!
Life is like this too. You can control the speed. Mostly my life (unlike my sledding) goes way too fast. This is because I am not cautious about what I add to the calendar. I add regularly occurring (good) things, but don’t take away anything. So I end up zipping from one event to the next, screaming (inside) because of the insane pace I keep.
Life is an area where I want and need to control the pace better. Two books have helped me on this are: Margin: Restoring Emotional, Physical, Financial, And Time Reserves to Overloaded Lives by Richard Swenson and Mudhouse Sabbath by Lauren Winner. Time to read them again and practice the advice.
Besides taking things OUT of my life, I need to thoughtfully and prayerfully add things to my life. Just because it is a good thing, doesn’t mean it is best for me to do.
Finally, the speed of my life is best moderated when I have ample time in prayer and Bible study. These twin acts help me to hear and obey the will of God for my life.
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- 14 Ways to Determine God’s Will
- 20 Ways to De-stress Your Life
- Follow the Bubble When You Are in Trouble
TWO. You can make the l-o-n-g trek with breaks, a friend, and encouragement. I don’t know how tall that sand dune was, but it was TALL.
3 steps up and 1 back meant that we walked 3 times the length. Right? Half way up I was panting (didn’t think to use my inhaler before going UP) and weak knee-ed. Not just me either.
Bunches of folks were taking a break. Even my friend Trish.
I stopped and looked down – we came a fair distance. I looked UP and saw we had a LONG way to go still.
After Trish and I rested, we decided to go for it. I was nervous because the bus driver only gave us 15 minutes and we were gone at least 10 minutes already.
That break with an encouraging friend is what I needed. Because of both, I was able to make it to the top.
Life sometimes feels like an uphill trek with more steps backwards than forward. Some days, some weeks, some seasons feel very l-o-n-g. That is when I/we need help from a friend who encourages us with words and actions.
At these tiring times in life, we need to make sure that we take breaks, that we have at least one encouraging friend, that we practice margin, and that we control the speed of life well.
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- 5 Reasons I Love My Support System
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- Get Busy Making Some History With a Friend
THREE. The ride was exhilarating and I am proud of myself for facing a fear. Looking up that TALL hill I knew that I’d have to face my fear of heights and speed coming D-O-W-N the dunes.
I was also afraid that I’d crash and hurt myself. I don’t care for pain or broken bones. But I did face that fear, step-by-step. I didn’t let myself concentrate on what “could” happen. I concentrated on the journey and my friend. Therefore I was able to make it to the top.
I sat down and whoosh I was gone.
Even though I screamed the whole way down, I discovered I LIKED the ride. The speed was exhilarating, although I didn’t care for the sand in the teeth. And I was so proud of myself. If we had time, I would have gone up again. Or so I like to think. 🙂
Sometimes life throws fearful situations my way. It is easy to let fear control my actions. But when I know this action is what I should be doing, it helps to conquer the paralyzing sting of fear and move forward.
I like to say to my kiddos, “Don’t let fear make your decision for you.” In this case I didn’t and I was rewarded.
Related Reading . . .
- 5 Ways I Take Care of Myself (blog post)
- 13 Tips to Face Your Fear & Enjoy The Ride (blog post from Life Hack)
- Strip Off Your Fear& Slip Into Something More Confident (Amazon Prime members can read this book for free)
- What Women Fear: Walking in Faith That Transforms (Book by Angie Smith)
FOUR. Not many get to do this. It was a cool once-in-a-lifetime experience since I don’t live near New Zealand. Focusing on that and the other above 3 points, helped me to get up that hill and then sled DOWN.
Once on top, I could have forsaken the sled and walked DOWN. But I didn’t. I took the opportunity in front of me.
Life also throws once-in-a-lifetime opportunities our way: A speaking engagement, a new job, starting a family, mastering a subject, going to counselling, a new relationship. All of these have the potential of not working out, of being out of our depth, of causing pain, embarrassment, failure or seeming just too hard to do.
But God has a unique plan for my life and yours. He has given us the tools to tackle these opportunities. Even when there are glitches in the process, we can still learn from these unique challenges.
Let’s make a deal. Let’s choose to tackle the obstacles that stand in our way. Let’s really LIVE our life going after those once-in-a-lifetime opportunities.
Related Posts . . .
- Celebrating Revisions (Carolyn Rubenstein’s Blog)
- Creating Your Personal Life Plan (Michael Hyatt’s Blog)
- Ready or Not, Here Life Comes (blogpost)
- What to do if Life Hasn’t Turned Out Like You Planned (Guest post by Amanda Carroll on Inspired to Action)
RECAP . . .
- Remember you control the speed. Take the time you need to accomplish this step. Declutter your life so you have the emotional and physical stamina needed. Live a life that you control. One that is set at a reasonable pace.
- Remember your arsenal of helps: breaks and a friend who encourages. How you travel , with whom and with what kind of people are under your sphere of influence. So choose wisely.
- Remember to enjoy the ride and to pat yourself on your back for a job well done. I often forget or neglect to reward myself for a job well done. I will say “Thank you” to others (verbally and with cards), but neglect to tell myself “Thank you.” That’s not right. It is okay and good to do
- Remember to take on those once-in-a-lifetime opportunities. Life is an adventure. Take each one as it comes your way.
My next scary (to me) adventurous “sand dune” is checking out and then attending a 2 week Spanish immersion class in Mexico or South America. Just the thought of it brings stampeding elephants to my stomach. But, oh, won’t I benefit sooooo much by doing this?
Your Turn . . .
- So what “sand dune” do you need to climb up and then sled DOWN?
- What tools will you use to help you make it?
- What advice do you have for us fellow “athletes”?
- Go ahead and brag. Tell us about your “sand dune” experience.
Related Sand Dune (real ones) Posts . . .
- 13 Alternative “Boards” to Use for going down the dunes
- Amazing Way to Go DOWN – the sand dune
- How Do You Spend Your Time?
- Night Time Sand Duning Could Yield THIS – I thought all I had to worry about was not breaking my neck. I never even thought of “things” being in the sand.
- Sand Dunes in Manhattan Beach, SoCal – Maybe I’ll go here some day. It’s close enough.
- Ski Down a Sand Dune in Colorado – Not something I will do until I can ski down snow and that’s probably not happening!